A man should desire a woman. If a man is not pursuing you, he doesn’t want you.
A man must have enough aggression in his nature to pursue, if not he will likely be passive in other areas of his life. However, say the man is indeed aggressive in other areas. His lack of pursuit should be an even clearer signal to you that he is not the right man or that you are not the right woman. “If he can pursue other things, but doesn’t choose you, he might like you, but he doesn’t like you enough. He still has someone else in mind. He is still searching.”
Trust Your Heart and Employ Your Mind.
A man’s initial attraction to a woman can lead him to make promises he can’t keep even though there may be sincerity in his speech. There are also instances, where a man will lie and deceive you. However, know that in many cases the deception originates from the woman. As you mentally explore the possibilities of a future, be careful that you acknowledge the power of your imagination. Don’t attach your desires to a man’s words. Listen to his words and see that his actions are in line.
“There is a difference between a broken promise and a lie, but the resulting disappointment is the same.
A man does not have to be a liar to break your heart.”
Employ Your Mind and Protect Your Heart.
Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life. ~ Proverbs 4:23
And last, but not least… Never make someone a priority who only sees you as an option.
© Primary Thoughts, Inc. 2009
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I loved this article. Words of wisdom to be sure
I’d like to add that (as a driven, confident, ‘aggressive’ man myself ), if a man is *not* interested in you, and he feels to you, to be of the type you may be interested in attracting, that you… as a powerful, beautiful woman, have the ability to ATTRACT him, or men of his type.
If he is not attracted, I’d love for people to consider it may also be a sign to help you access your gifts that CAN attract and inspire him (or other driven men,) to include you in their life. I suggest making *yourself* a priority no matter if others see you as an option or a priority or something else altogether.
There is a spiritual relationship master who I reference often, named David Deida, and he offers a free audio clip from one of his talks called “Why Would A Man Choose You”, and I find it’s been helpful for everyone I shared it with.
http://www.deida.info/audio/excerpts/why-would-man-choose-you
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