Single & Cute? 10 Reasons She Must Be Crazy!

Here I go with the questions again? Why do men see an attractive woman, see no ring on the finger, slide up beside her, wherever they happen to be and strike up a conversation, only to conclude after 2 hours of fact-finding dialogue that… “Houston, we have a problem!”

Once they’ve searched her Rolodex for crazy baby daddy’s and asked for a certified copy of her birth certificate only to find nothing, the next question out of their mouth is, “What’s wrong with you? You must be crazy? Are you a stalker?”

I love Lucille Ball and this look on her face is crazy!

Since when does, Single Cute = Stalker Chick? I thought that all men want the opportunity to approach a woman that’s fly and available.

1. She’s got her spot at the 12 in Atlantic Station.

2. She degreed up with no kids.

3. Did I say fine?

4. AND she’s willing to take a trip to the anytest location around the corner, but what… you will pass?

5. She’s resourceful! Yes, she likes the finer things in life, but she can afford them and if she couldn’t she knows how to stretch a dollar.

6. She’s skilled. No, she never employed a “maintenance man” because she’s intelligent enough to figure some ish out on her own around her “own” house.

7. She’s about family. She loves her kin, but she has her boundaries and knows when to draw the line.

8. She’s maternal. There’s not a crying baby around that she can’t sooth with her beautiful smile and comforting voice.

9. She’s spiritual, persuasive and eloquent. She can talk a whore off the street and prepare the Sunday school teachers for the upcoming lesson.

10. She can play any role from housewife to catching the game to the red carpet, but you, the man, question her.

You feel more comfortable with someone that has issues, old baggage and no sense of class. Could it be that you’ve come across a woman who’s just been selective, decisive and determined?

Ladies, please feel free to add to my list. Do you get scoffed at when answering a man’s barrage of “get to know you” questions? What question irks your nerve the most? Men, please enlighten us. Why is there no trust? Have you been hoodwinked in the past? Not saying that every woman is going to have the above stellar resume, but if she fits 80% of it, why walk away without the number? Why do you automatically think “crazy”?

Single Cute ≠ Stalker Chick

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